Work takes to the sidelines

This isn't last night it's now tomorrow morning so as my EMT (family meme from my late mother, Early Morning Tea) has just arrived I shall pen a few notes about yesterday's activities.  As my title suggests this didn't include any work except the odd email and tweet.

Garden
As the sun was shining I took the opportunity to plant a few more bulbs, another 36 daffodils to be precise.  They are at the top of the garden path so  should make a jolly entrance in the spring. This took some considerable time as I had a break in middle, a friend dropped by unexpectedly (see below).  I still have 40 iris, some anemones, and an opened packet of small bulbs that are not labelled.  That will be a nice surprise next spring!

Bird feeding time is upon us.  I have moved the feeders nearer to the house in the hope that I maybe able to get some better photographs of my winter visitors.  However, so far they are having none of it.   They have visited the hanging bird table and the sparrows have eaten some of the seed that have dropped out of the feeders.  I may also have made a mistake with the seed mix - attracted by size and low cost of a bag from Homebase.  There seems to be quite a high percentage of what looks like barley and the visitors to the hanging table seem to be picking there way around it.  Hopefully, that isn't why they are not visiting the feeders.  I shall be patient.

Friends
As I said the joy of being around is being able to get together with old friends and best of all are the impromptu meetings.  We are lucky to have a village primary school, most of my friends are those made at the school gate. A friend dropped by that I hadn't seen since before Christmas (shocking), a pleasant interruption to the bulb planting.  So it was time for a cuppa and a catch up.  She had retired in April from a very stressful job in education.  She had not long heard that she was going to become a grandma next February.  This is particularly joyful news as her daughter had been in a serious car accident a few years ago. At the time we were not sure she would survive. Her son, who was in my son's year has transformed and now works for a luxury car company and goes off each day looking very smart.

Once the catch up was over it was time to quickly finish the bulb planting, change and go off for another excursion.  This was to meet a friend who had moved from the village.  Three of us went off to a local garden centre that has a nice cafe.  We had a combined lunch and cream tea - which confused the poor waitress somewhat.  So we ended up with the cup of tea before the main course and nothing to wash down the scones. My son would describe that as a "first world problem"! As we walked into the cafe we were greeted by another group of ladies from the village - the WI committee out for lunch.  A group of ladies I knew as I had been on the committe myself  before I went back to work in 2007.

I won't bore you with the minutiae of  whose child is doing what but it was lovely to find out that so many of my children's contempories have found a place in life and seem to be content with getting on  with things.

TV
After such a busy day I'm afraid the evening was spent "slobbing" in front of the TV with my husband. I dozed my way through what I am sure was an interesting programme on the gunpowder plot, might have to revisit. The we found that Hugo was being shown on Film 4. We had seen it in the cinema but couldn't resist watching it again. Its such a charming film. Its a fictional story based around the life of the early film maker Georges Melies. Its a clever combination of filming and CGI. I am not a fan of Sacha Baron Cohen (remember Ali G?) but his portrayal of the station master was splendid.

As you can see there was no time for work.  Lets see if I fare any better today!

Another new life - and I'm not pregnant!

So after yet another period of silence I am back.  More big changes. I have now taken the plunge and become self-employed as an independent civil celebrant - not a civil servant. Lots of people think I say that when I tell them what I do, will have to announciate more clearly.  So, if you don't know an independent civil celebrant designs and delivers ceremonies for key life events such as baby namings, weddings and funerals. Independent because I am not associated with any particular faith group and I am also not a Humanist.

I should have started recording my thoughts on 1 August when I officially started my business, Tapestry Ceremonies (thank you Carole King for the inspiration) but like Barliman Butterbur one thing drove out another. I now find summer has disappeared, I am nearly three months in and much has happened.

Without the discipline of going out to work every day I do find I lose track of the days so I am going to blog to help keep track and to ponder on progress made.

I will be back later, today is full of important things - haircut and a trip out with a couple of friends.  One of the great things about being at home is being able to get back into village life.  Although I miss all the people at Kallidus life has become more chilled and it is great reconnecting with old friends.